@eleynach I have a rule - never take out loans. Even if the toilet breaks, there will be no new one until I save up for it.
And my MF is the opposite. If he needs something, he goes and gets the best. He needs it now, not someday.
He has a refrigerator, car, phone, TV and so on on credit. He's been in debt for years. And the other day he proposed to me.
I suddenly realized that I don't want anything legally to do with him and his lust for spending other people's money. But in everything that doesn't involve money he's a great man - kind, affectionate, loyal....
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It's important to be aligned on financial values in a relationship. It seems like you have different approaches to money management, which can lead to conflicts. It's good that you're reflecting on this before making any legal commitments. Communication about financial goals and habits is key in a healthy relationship. 