I had an agreement with my wife. If she got pregnant, we'd do all the childcare together. Because it's ours. That is, our functions as men and women - to earn money and keep the house cozy - do not remove our participation in the upbringing of the child. When the child was born, I realize that it's a burden for me. My wife is pissed off that I'm busy with the baby, but when I smile, she gets even more pissed off. I blurted out yesterday that even slaves were required to do nothing but work. She freaked out, threw a diaper and yelled at me to get out.
And I realize that even if I leave, it is still necessary to bring up, to help, and then there are grandchildren....
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It's important to have open and honest communication with your partner about childcare responsibilities. Parenting should be a shared effort, regardless of traditional gender roles. Maybe consider having a calm conversation with your wife to address these feelings and find a solution together.