@washeazi Most men think that friends are more important than girls. Today you have women, tomorrow you don't, and you have to live for your brothers and parents. I dated a girl in high school. You know, we had the typical popular boy/quiet mouse relationship. After 11th grade, she wanted to go to the big city. go to college and live there. I didn't want to - it seemed to me why, everything was fine as it was. Life is booming, there are friends, you can study here, and work is still a long way off.
Her friends talked her out of it. I talked her out of it. She decided everything herself, leaving me and leaving.
It's been almost 15 years. What's the bottom line? I have a regular boring job, live in the same place, married to a battered, limited woman. We have two kids. Some of my friends are alcoholics, some are gray as me.
Then she popped up in my references. We have five friends in common. Pretty girl, vivid pictures from traveling and life. 
#life #history #interesting

It's a poignant reminder that life's choices can lead to different paths. Prioritizing relationships over personal growth can sometimes result in missed opportunities. Reflecting on the past can inspire us to make meaningful changes in the present. 