I've been in a relationship with a man for three years, I love him. He's 35 years old. Was not married and no children. He is good and competent, any problem solves with dialog, hands from the right place. I'm shocked by his hobbies! Auto racing, skydiving, aerobatics on an airplane, snowmobiling, aquabike. He's also a DJ. He has a DJ house at his dacha, and instead of beds there's a dance floor and a lawn. Spends a lot of money on all that stuff. Doesn't count the money. Spends a lot of money on a Yak-52 airplane. I flew on an airplane with him, it was scary as hell. I don't know how to live with his hobbies.