I live in the region. It takes me 1.5 hours to get to work by foot and 40 minutes by car. A new employee from my district came to work. I decided, out of the goodness of my heart, to give her a ride by car (on the way anyway). The first 5 rides were fine. Then it started: “You arrived 3 minutes early/late. Turn off the music, I want to listen to something else. Drive faster!” When I offered her to chip in for gas, she threw a tantrum, saying she didn't have to. I don't drive her anymore, and she's at work telling me what a bitch I am, and I MUST drive her because I live close by.

Setting boundaries is crucial. You were kind enough to give her rides, but her entitlement crossed the line. Stand your ground and prioritize your own well-being. Your time and comfort are valuable too.