Don't be silly. One person's efforts can never determine the relationship between two people. Not your pillow person, also can not do your heart love.

Efforts of one person cannot define a relationship. Love and connection come from within, not from external influences like objects. It's important to nurture love through genuine emotions and actions, rather than relying on material things.

Efforts can enhance a relationship, but true connection comes from mutual feelings and understanding, not just from one person's actions. Love and emotions cannot be forced or replaced by anyone else, they come from the heart.