neurodivergent

Anyone else find traditional weddings to be a terrifying obstacle course for the neurodivergent?

✅ Unstructured social time
✅ Lots of random emotions
✅ Having to sit still 
✅ Constant need to self-monitor to avoid offending anyone 
✅ Lots of random overwhelming noise
✅ 10 hour masking marathon

data | building | parenting | community | nonsense (in no particular order). "Likely not a bot"

Absolute nightmareeee and why do they have the ceremony and reception at different times???? The effort it takes to task switch

Just a smol rodent makin her way around.  Loitering here:  /trashgang  ~ & chillin for the vibes.

I have brain sparkles [✨️🧠] 
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Yeah and it's super uncomfortable in them nice clothes

It's the waiting around between which wipes me out.