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TUESDAY TEACH 

500 DEGEN for the best answer posted in /teach. Quote cast this post to enter.

What is something that you learned as an adult that you wish you had understood when you were a child?

For me it’s that it’s a ok to say no. If you don’t feel like doing something then it’s ok to just politely say no. You don’t have to go along with the crowd. You can forge your own path and people will still like you even if you don’t share all the same interests and do all the same things as them.

What’s yours?

TUESDAY TEACH 

SOME THINGS I LEARNED AS AN ADULT THAT I WISH I KNEW EARLIER.


1.ITS NOT SELFISH TO PUT YOURSELF FIRST.

 My whole life, I have been afraid of being labelled as selfish. Anytime I wanted to put myself first, I always felt that people would think of me as a bad person and all of the negative connotations that go with putting yourself first. And because of this I always put everyone else needs before mine😭 but now I’m at a stage where I have realized that if you don’t put yourself first, you aren’t living your best life at all✌️

2. CUT OUT TOXIC AND CERTAIN PEOPLE FROM YOUR LIFE BE IT FAMILY OR FRIENDS.

Cutting out toxic or certain people from your life hurts at first, but you’ll feel better in the long run. As someone who has been in toxic relationships, I can tell that it’s hurtful to cut out toxic people, especially if you are doing it for the first time, and if they’re people you actually care about.