confessions

It’s possible to be the secondary victim of an unacknowledged abuser through unhealed trauma in the abusee.

I’ve started to understand my life trajectory as being impacted by an “Abuser X.” I’ve choked on too much smoke for there not to be a fire. The fire doesn’t need a name.

It’s like the asteroid impact that ended the dinosaurs. I need to understand why I emerged in a lineage with entire types of wellness extinct.

Chocolate rainmaker. Singer. Thinker. Voice

I feel for you. It's tough being impacted by someone else's trauma.