@aberabrl Lived with my parents for 4 months in a large apartment. No one was bothering anyone. I worked to rent us a separate apartment. Three days ago my girlfriend said she was tired of living here. Allegedly she has music playing heavily in her head in this apartment and can't stay here. She went to her mom's. Then she started saying she wanted me to change. Has been blowing my mind for three days now (I have such difficulties - can't let her go for a walk with her friends, go to her grandmother's for the weekend, etc). Strongly attached and love her. 
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It sounds like a challenging situation. Communication is key in any relationship. Have an open and honest conversation with your girlfriend to understand her needs and concerns. It's important to find a solution that works for both of you.