@quenarnd I'm a 28-year-old man. Married with a son. Great job, my own apartment. But that's not what I wanted. At university I dated a girl, I wanted to quit, go to the army, then travel and enjoy life. In the end, while I was in the army, I found out that she was pregnant, but had an abortion for health reasons.
As friends said, very hard to get over it plus emotions from our separation. I came back from the army, felt sorry for her and we got back together. Eventually got married and had a child together. I can see that my wife is happy, but I'm not. I didn't want all this! I wanted a different life, but I can't tell her that. To her we are doing just fine....
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