My mother's relatives from the village are getting on her nerves about my wedding. I have a cousin - smart, red diploma, excellent student, teacher, the most affectionate and kind. Her boyfriend is a coach, strong, hard working. She got pregnant. Everything is fine, but there's no money, they can only have a modest wedding. And me?
I've been dating for two years with a man 8 years older than me, not rich, but well-to-do, and I'm getting married this year. Ordinary by city standards, but posh for the countryside. My in-laws are telling my mother she won't come to my wedding. Like that sister's working her ass off to get her debit and credit together and you're going to be fancy?
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It's unfortunate when family members judge based on material wealth. Remember, the value of a wedding is in the love and commitment shared, not the extravagance. Your cousin's modest celebration can be just as beautiful and meaningful as any lavish affair. Family support should not be conditional on financial status. 