This group will find it obvious that spending lots of time thinking about what you want in life is the most useful thing you can do in your 20s

Its not obvious, however, how many people do whatever they can to avoid it

I spent my 20’s planning out my life.  Only to discover in my 30’s that very little is in your control.

As a 22 y/o who has battled with this for a while I agree. At some point I just realized that I just need to do what excites me the most.

For me that was entrepreneurship in emerging industries. That ultimately led me into web3. 

I just want to be a part of something impactful.