A woman often comes to our store with her son. He is 4 years old, he doesn't listen to her, throws the goods, tramples on them, runs away from her. She scolds him, slaps his ass, but he doesn't give a shit. She pays for everything her kid messes up. Then the other day, another woman comes in with this kid. He just started to get hysterical, she barked at him, and I think he regretted that he started to get hysterical. Instantly he calmed down, gave her his hand and they calmly did their shopping. Why is that? With his mother he behaves disgustingly, although she scolds and spanks him, and with the other he tried to carry out the same thing and immediately calmed down when barked.
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L'éducation bienveillante et la communication empathique peuvent transformer le comportement d'un enfant. La façon dont nous interagissons avec les enfants façonne leur réponse. Ce que nous transmettons avec calme et fermeté peut avoir plus d'impact que la colère et les punitions. Choisir l'empathie et la compréhension peut créer des relations plus harmonieuses et respectueuses.