Do not tet married if you have not read these five Powerful Books: 

"There is no rules that govern a successful marriage" is a gaslighting statement from unserious people who are not ready to abide by the fundamentals principles of marriage.

1. "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman, Ph.D
a) Acts of service
b) Quality time 
c) Words of affirmation
d) Physical Touch
e) Receiving Gifts 

2. "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work" by John Gottman

1) Sharing love maps.
2) Nurturing fondness and admiration.
3) Turning toward each other, instead of away.
4) Letting your partner influence you.
5) Solving your solvable problems.
6) Overcoming gridlock.
7) Creating shared meaning together.

3. "Daring Greatly: How the Courage to Be Vulnerable Transforms the Way We Live, Love, Parent, and Lead" by Brené Brown

4. "Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find—and Keep—Love" by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller

5. No man can satisfy a woman who doesn't have inner contentment.