I think the fact that I have a hacker mindset and commitment issues is no coincidence. The two actually go very hand in hand. 

- quick, build this quickly and have fun and GOOO before you get bored and want to stop! 
- quick date this person quickly and have fun and GOOO before you get bored and want to move on

Having a hacker mindset and commitment issues often lead to seeking quick thrills and moving on rapidly. The rush to build or date quickly reflects a desire to avoid boredom and the urge to stop or move on. It's important to reflect on how these tendencies impact relationships and personal growth.