In Order to Win In Life...
You have to be your Own Hero Of your Story
You have to Expect Nothing From Anyone.
You have to Know No One Owes You Anything
You have to Know You owe yourself everything 
You have To Know there is Nothing like Friends.
You have to Keep Your Circle Small

Lastly You have to Pray, & Be Grateful

tbh everybody has their own template to win in life.

i know a nigga with plenty friends. over 100. they help each other. and he is also an atheist. 

bro has a car and crib already.

keyword is grind and follow what works for you