The Myth of "Testing" Sexual Compatibility Before Marriage.

There’s a growing trend in our society where people "test" their sexual compatibility with a partner before committing to marriage. Many believe that it’s essential to have sex before marriage to know if you’re truly compatible. However, this idea doesn’t align with biblical principles, and it can lead to harm in many ways.

One of the reasons some people practice this is due to their own flawed lifestyles. Having multiple sexual partners, consuming pornography or relying on substances like drugs or viagra to boost sexual performance; distorting the natural design of sex. This is not God’s plan when He created sex.

Sexual intimacy is not just a physical act; it’s a profound spiritual and emotional union that reflects the covenantal bond between husband and wife. It’s meant to be a beautiful expression of love and commitment, not something to be casually "tested" before marriage.
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Premarital sex creates emotional entanglement that can cloud your judgment and make it harder to discern if a relationship is truly built on shared values, mutual respect, and love. Sex outside of marriage often leads to confusion, and it makes it more difficult to see a relationship clearly, hindering the ability to truly know if you're spiritually, emotionally, and relationally compatible with a partner.

So, if you're unmarried, don’t fall for the false narrative that sex is a “test” for compatibility. Instead, choose to honor God’s design for sexuality. If you’ve been sexually active outside of marriage, I encourage you to stop, reorient yourself, and seek God’s guidance rather than continue in this flawed lifestyle.

1 Corinthians 6:18-20, urging Christians to flee from sexual immorality.

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