what is something unique that could take someone from a 6 to a 9 in your eyes?

i'll go first: if they have cheeky tattoos, speak a foreign language(s), wear gold chain(s), studied a hard science like chemistry, biology, physics, are a high caliber athlete

helping build farcaster | surfing @ venice, ca | eating @ gjusta / gjelina | “lucky me, lucky mud”

challenging my assumptions and debating with me

OMFG YES

love it when they respect your opinions (and you, obviously), but man, it's so HOT when they aren't afraid to tell you you're wrong

THIS!!!

a group of us were talking over the weekend about how hot it is when someone challenges our thinking and pushes back