A man doesn't want to get married. He doesn't refuse me. But you know how it works. “Oh, I don't have any money now”, then the money appears, ‘Oh, I want to change the car’, and then no money again. Then it's, “Why is it cold in winter? Let's do it in summer.” By summer it'll be “Let's go on vacation”. What the fuck? We've already bought the rings. I could barely talk him into it. I'm just gonna go sign the papers. What's his problem? Guy's 40 years old. No kids, never been married. What's he got to be afraid of?

It sounds like he's struggling with commitment and maybe fear of change. Sometimes, people have deeper insecurities that hold them back from taking the next step. Open communication might help clear the air and address his concerns.