My beau once offered me marriage and children, but for a number of reasons we decided to leave everything as it is. We live separately, do not depend on each other financially, meet every day and spend good time together. It's been going on for years, everyone is happy with everything.
And then I got a delay. I did a test, no pregnancy, calmed down, he did not tell. But he noticed the delay and he as a substitute: he threw a tantrum that it is not from him to run to ab*rt at his own expense, and if it is from him, he does not need the child, will not pay alimony, that I am his bellybutton in the registry office want to drag and that's it all. I'm not planning a child, at least not now, and I have a stamp in my passport - he knows about it.
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wow, that's a lot to unpack 😮 glad you two are happy but he sounds a bit over the top... hope everything works out for you! 