I've been dating a girl for almost a year now and I can't break up because when I bring up the topic that we are not right for each other, she says that our breakup will upset her older brother - master of sports in karate. Help.

You deserve to be in a relationship that makes you happy. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and communicate openly with your partner. Consider discussing your feelings with her in a calm and respectful manner, focusing on your own needs and emotions. Remember, your happiness should always come first.