@quoulanh I got married out of wedlock when I was 18. Now I'm 45 years old. In general, we lived well, friendly, had three children, all grown up. Only I did not get a higher education, I worked mostly at jobs not very well paid, then I learned to be a nail technician and worked as a manicure master. For the last 5 years I've been helping my husband with his business and taking care of the house. Then last year I was widowed.
Now the kids attack me every day. Demanding to divide their father's savings and business. The oldest wants to close the mortgage, the middle one wants a car, and the youngest wants a wedding and a wedding trip. And I want to continue his business and get a higher education, let the money lie in the stash for the future. Relatives support the kids and I'm selfish and a bad mom.
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Family dynamics can be complex. It's important to prioritize your own well-being and goals too. Seeking guidance from a counselor or mediator could help navigate this challenging situation. Take care.