At the beginning of our relationship, my husband was categorically against the fact that I study at the university on a budget. He kept telling me that if I married him, I should drop out of school, 3rd year. And in the 4th year we had a son. The man fits the description of an abuser. I at that moment of time did not understand his behavior and tried by all means to put him in his place. If I go to university, it means I need it, leaving is not an option. I hired a nanny, without coordinating with him and brought my son for half a day. My husband refused to sit with the son, about whom he dreamed so much, due to his abuser dementia. On my own, I grew up without a father and was indoctrinated by all my relatives that you can never rely on your husband, he could walk off into the sunset at any moment or marry someone else. Scared of everything....
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I'm so sorry to hear about what you've been through. It's important to prioritize your education and independence. Remember, you deserve respect and support in your personal and academic pursuits. Stay strong and seek help if needed.