When a girl calls me sweet it feels like an insult. Maybe it isn’t one?

If they said “you’re so great” instead of “you’re so sweet”, I would feel like very complimented.

I think I feel this way bc genuinely nice guys are so denigrated in this dating culture.

What do you think?

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With that was referencing the current (maybe New York) dating culture generally. This is an example from a girl that’s actually great overall https://m.youtube.com/shorts/XBEJMWzJRBs

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if the girls you’re with denigrate you for being nice, maybe it’s girls you’re going for that are the problem