@hahroshl When I got married, the question of housing came up. My husband didn't see the point in renting, so we saved up for a down payment, but you know what the prices were like and it was hard to save up. We lived with my mom, but my husband was very much stressed about it. My mom is calm, does not interfere, and the apartment is big enough, but like this ... my husband was just stressed that my mom is in the apartment. Then I got pregnant and since we are 34 years old, we decided to have a baby. When I gave birth, my mom of course wants to babysit my granddaughter, and my husband is acutely aware that my mom enters our room and touches things (granddaughter's things, not his). Eventually the husband freaked out and went to his parents, coming over on weekends.....
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