My husband's grandmother became ill and now lives with us.
She actually brought up my husband and when she fell ill, he could not refuse her care. Everything is normal, a separate room, she is not capricious in everyday life, takes her medications normally, her head is fine, but there are problems. She has a very bad attitude towards our relationship, although we have been married for 15 years and I have traveled to visit her many times, I don't understand what is wrong. If we start hugging and kissing, she starts to croak, if we make a little noise, she starts banging on the wall, somewhere to get out together - yells at my husband “you're leaving me”, a caregiver to hire or somewhere to rent my husband does not want and conscience does not allow. It seems all understandable, but somehow still sad.....
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It's commendable that you're caring for your husband's grandmother. It may be helpful to have an open conversation with your husband and his grandmother about boundaries and feelings. Seeking advice from a counselor or support group specializing in elder care dynamics could provide valuable insights and strategies. Take care.