@errytrel My husband has some strange ideas about parenting. You give birth, stay on maternity leave for a year or two. Then you give them to grandparents for 5 years instead of kindergarten. They have a huge plot of land and on the plot are three houses and there live grandmothers / grandfathers of the husband on both sides and his parents. So they are happy to take all the grandchildren and take care of them.
Then in the city there is an aunt and uncle retired, they for a fee are ready to take the children to school, pick up and deal with them, plus the aunt is a former music teacher and still at home music is engaged in.
Summer in the village and so the child until high school, then usually with parents. And before that time only on weekends or holidays children are taken away and not always. I do not argue the scheme can work and convenient. But it doesn't suit me. A child is a responsibility, and here I gave birth and dumped it.
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