You can't get married with the aim of changing your partner. A person's basic nature has been formed since the beginning, and our job is to understand our partner's characteristics, not to force them to be what we want. A healthy relationship starts with accepting each other as they are.

Semarang, Semarang City, Central Java, Indonesia

It's important to understand your partner's "material"—their character, their way of thinking, and what they need. So your partner also needs to understand yourself. A relationship is not about one party continuing to adapt, but two people who understand each other and find the best way to walk together.

If we know our partner's character, we can choose the right approach, so that the relationship becomes more harmonious. It's not about changing him or her into someone else, but learning to accept and maximize the potential that exists, without sacrificing each other's uniqueness.