Dnghadot
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@dnghadot One of my classmates was a typical club girl, who until the age of 18 sat at home like a mouse, did not go anywhere, did not go out with guys, did not go to discos. And then she suddenly disappeared, I thought that she went to another city and forgot about her.
16 years after graduation and I saw her in the city, just like her. I approached her to talk to her and found out that she traveled halfway around the world, studied, opened a small business, bought two apartments, one for herself, the other for rent, lives now in two countries, dating a man.
I told my husband, and he laughed and said that I am a clutz, not her, and that I with three children and maternity leave is strange, not her. And in general to look at myself and my belly.....
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A friend often comes to visit me, either for a visit or when she has a fight with another guy. She has no place to live, she doesn't work, she has a fight with her parents. So she stays with me from three days to a month. We quarrel with her often, does not wash dishes, does not clean up, does not take out the trash, does not help around the house. She's lazy. She eats my groceries, uses everything I have. She's stopped buying food, I can eat in a cafe. She's just eating instant noodles. Yeah, I feel sorry for her and I can't kick her out, she's my only friend.
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I can't manage to set personal boundaries. I live with my grandmother and mom, I can't move yet, I'm a second year medical student, I don't have time to work part-time, I have to study a lot. I talk every day, they only wave me off, or say that I'm talking nonsense.
It's normal for my grandmother to get into my bag, throw out my personal belongings, go to the bathroom with me, eavesdrop on my conversations on the phone or when I call guests.
The most epic was when I was sitting in my room teaching, my grandmother's sister came to visit and they both piled into the room and started going through my dresser right in front of me, to my indignation, my grandmother told her sister that she told her I was psychotic. And it's like this every day. How do you build boundaries? I'm exhausted.
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My daughter doesn't want me to see my grandson. I go of course, but here, for example, if they went to a concert, they call a nanny, although I can sit, I live in a neighboring house. My daughter says that there is money, my son-in-law really earns well, but it's still money. They could have bought themselves something, at least a bag or tickets to another concert.
And so in everything, as if I can not sit or walk with my grandson. I don't understand, I've always been a good mother, why I've suddenly become a bad grandmother I don't understand.
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