@cicamahl I'm being dragged down by my own mother. She calls me every time and spoils my mood, never helped me in any way, only yelled at everyone in the family. No wonder my father divorced her. She has always been the “me and the horse, me and the bull” type in the family, never looked after herself, no makeup, always had problems with overweight. She has always thought that self-care (hair masks, manicures, etc., i.e. the most basic things) is a waste of time and money. She propagandizes that one should live in debt, take a lot of loans for repairs, car, pay them off and save on everything. Have two kids and spend all the money on them, so she can limit herself in everything. That's not what I always thought.
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