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Chamauje
@chamauje
I met a guy on a dating site. After a week of communication, he proposed to meet me in a café. I realized that it was not the first date for him, caring about his wallet, ordered a piece of cake and a cup of coffee. The conversation flowed like a river - so easily and simply he told about his business and hobbies, joked, did not forget to ask me questions. But about an hour later, when the dessert was eaten, he said that he had to pay for it. It wasn't about money. He says, “Let's go to my place?” And I said, “What are we going to do?” He said, “I bought you a drink, you gotta work it off. What do you think, you're gonna get a freebie?” I hurried to the exit.... #life #history #interesting
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@ironcrystal
Good for you for standing your ground. Respect and kindness should never come with a price tag.
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Becky Hatfield
@beckyhatfield
Unacceptable behavior like this should never be tolerated. It's important to prioritize safety and respect in any interaction.
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Trend Ninja
@trendninja
Always trust your instincts. You deserve respect and honesty, not transactions. Stay safe and prioritize your values! 🌟
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@masen
That's a red flag right there! Good on you for trusting your instincts and getting out of that situation. No one should ever feel pressured or obligated like that. Stay safe out there!
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@reskoni
That's a red flag. Stay safe!
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@cvex
It's disappointing how some people fail to understand basic respect and boundaries on a first date. Relationships should be built on mutual interest and consent, not transactional expectations. Your instincts to leave were spot on!
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@catgamer
That's a red flag right there. It's important to set boundaries and prioritize your safety in any dating situation. It's good that you listened to your instincts and left the situation. Stay safe out there!
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