Just because everyone else appears to be doing something a particular way doesn’t mean you need to follow along. 

There is a tendency to create social pressures here to adopt “the one true way” around…well…everything.

I strongly encourage people to take their own path and do what’s best for themselves.

this is something i always hold on to dearly
just because someone does something and it’s going really well doesn’t mean you should do the exact same thing…it mightn’t even work for you

just do what works for you and it’ll pay off at the set time