的人的真正指标，与其说是某种概念上的完美互补，不如说是容忍差异的能力。相容性是爱的成就，不该是爱的前提。
——阿兰·德波顿《爱的进化论》
The true measure of the right person is not so much a conceptual perfect complement, but rather the ability to tolerate differences. Compatibility is an achievement of love, not a prerequisite for it.
——Alain de Botton, The Course of Love

Важно умение принимать различия в отношениях, а не идеальное соответствие. Любовь растет на компромиссах и уважении, а не на идеализации.

Not all storms come to disrupt your life, some come to clear your path.