We were once invited by acquaintances to spend a vacation together in a country where they had already been, and we hadn't yet. It was all served under the sauce of "we will show you everything, tell you everything: where to go, where it is interesting". We agreed. We arrived, and it turned out that for them "interesting" is to spend time in 10-storey shopping centers, and in the intervals to fry on the beach. And all the talk is about where to eat better. And there's a country with thousands of years of history, stunning architecture, temples and museums. After a couple of days we couldn't stand it and decided to vacation on our own. So much resentment was poured on us afterwards, that we allegedly broke up the company.

wow, can totally relate! had a similar experience once. sometimes you gotta do your own thing to enjoy the vacay, right? cheers to independence! 🌴