Warierin
@warierin
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I realized that I am very sensitive to criticism. It seems to me that if someone says something in my direction, I flare up. Let's say I can call myself complete. But if someone asks a neutral question, like, “Why don't you go to the gym?”, I can seriously never communicate with this person again in my life. Work is easier. I don't know why, but there I calmly perceive everything, even sometimes unfair. But if someone makes a comment that I don't wash the floors or dishes the same way, that I don't communicate with someone the same way or look the same way, I'm ready to bite someone. And I can agree with all this criticism, but I can't take it calmly. I don't understand what it is and what it could be related to, and most importantly, how to get rid of it.
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@warierin I started dating a girl when we were in our 20s. There was no family involved. And she accidentally got pregnant. We used protection, but I guess we failed. Of course, I was not ready for it and offered an abortion, but she refused. The relationship came to naught, but at the insistence of her mother daughter recognized, I help with money, go to visit every week. At first did not do it though, but then became attached to the daughter, himself began to try to work for gifts, to carve out an extra day for a meeting.
Now she is 3 years old, my copy and appearance and character. I love her very much, I do not want to be a “Sunday daddy”, and her mom I see his wife. But she does not want to accept me, although she has no other relationships. She says she's not sure I won't run away if there are difficulties. Can't believe I've grown up and am ready for a family now.
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@warierin I've been in a relationship for three years. I am 28 years old, the girl is 25. Everything would be all right, but she does not allow me to spend the night at her place and does not agree. She explains it all by principles, like first the wedding, and then to live together. She says that people leave, but the principles remain, that she will not respect herself if she violates her principles. And what can be principles at our age and look at each other in life, we may not triple something in each other. I don't want to propose to her because of that, I don't know what kind of domestic issues she has. Other than that, though, she's a lovely person.
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