It's crazy how much your upbringing affects your perception of the world, even for small things like doing dishes, laundry, tying shoes, etc.

You tend not to question many things that might've been wrong or suboptimal (most parents are just trying their best) until much later in life, often thanks to having a partner

/new-york by day 🗽 /latenightcrew by night :) Fan of eating tacos and bringing people together, often at the same time 🌮 oh and /untzuntz 😈

In college this became so apparent who knew their life skills and who didn’t 😂

🕯️they/them, candlemaker at https://humankind.place

Yeah college is another big one that causes you to question (and learn) things, basically any situation where you're living with new people