Sex is a physical life that follows the principle of pleasure. Love is a spiritual life that follows the principle of ideals. Marriage is a social life that follows the principle of reality. These are three completely different things. The difficulty of marriage is how to unify the three in the same person of the opposite sex, not letting the temptation and pleasure of sex paralyzed by habit, and not letting trivial reality damage the passion and ideals of love. The difficulty of marriage is that marriage is a social organization that requires stability by nature, but sex, as its natural foundation, naturally tends to be a transaction. "So the existence of marriage is essentially anti-human. It may require love and sexual impulses as motivation to make people have the impulse to enter into marriage, but it requires more rational ability and emotional management to maintain it for a long time.

Marriage truly is a complex dance of balancing love, passion, and reality. It's amazing how it requires both emotional depth and rational thinking to thrive. Definitely takes commitment and understanding to keep it harmonious! 💍