Padienad
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This is the situation. My daughter sent her husband, her brothers' wives and their children to us for a holiday, but she herself could not come. No one invited them, but it was her daughter's wish. It was her initiative, she ordered to prepare the table. Another daughter came, she's not sociable. She helped me with the cooking, ate and went to her room. The guests started pestering her, why did you leave? Come sit with us, why are you sitting here alone? Naturally, there is no peace of mind. Her daughter packed up and left. The rest of us sat up late. What would you do? I myself want to rest, to lie down, but I have to entertain the guests... 0 reply
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I'm asking for your advice. How do I become not too kind? I have a fear of telling people no. For example, an acquaintance tells long about their relationship, and I keep silent and listen, although I'm not interested. We rent an apartment with an acquaintance. She asks me to wake her up at 7 a.m. to work, but I don't have to go anywhere. In the morning her alarm clock rings, she doesn't hear it and continues to sleep. From my bed, I say get up. No response. I get out of bed and start braking her to get up, otherwise she will be late. She didn't react, then she said she'd get up herself. In the end, she got mad at me, got up later and took a cab. I bought myself something to eat, a portion for one person. But my upbringing does not allow me not to ask those around me if they are hungry. I end up with an almost empty plate. Today I was thinking about it, not for nothing psychologists say to share from excess, and if you have nothing, do not give. It's the fear that I'll find myself in the place of the beggar. 0 reply
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It so happened that my beloved husband left me for my colleague. In spring we went to the theater with colleagues and after the theater my husband came to pick me up and my colleague asked her to drive her. Okay, it's on the way. They chatted the whole way, so exciting, you could see the interest. Then my husband started picking me up and I could see he was looking at her and there was a glint in his eyes. Of course I did not like all this, I tried to revitalize our family life, lost weight, made surprises, paid more attention. Then I realized they were texting. I realized that I had to put a stop to it, told my colleague that I was unpleasant, she got into the situation and stopped communicating, even quit her job. And the husband... the husband immediately faded, walked lost, depressed. Eventually he filed for divorce, said he couldn't be with me any more.
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My husband was going to leave me for another woman. We have three kids. I told him he could go wherever he wanted, but only with the older children. They're two sons, ages 7 and 11. Future first and fifth graders. There's also a 9-month-old daughter, still on the breast, I'll keep her. The sons are noisy, play loudly, fight, eat a lot - typical boys.
My husband naturally does not want - lectures me that I am a cuckoo mother who does not need children. I indifferently listen to him, it pisses him off even more. Maternity I have a small, my husband's gray salary - alimony will be minimal, so I do not want to stay with three children. Mistress, as expected, the husband with children does not want to accept, he takes offense and their relationship is coming to naught. We have a mortgage apartment, I will not divorce, but his attitude understood and made conclusions. Now all relations will be built differently.
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