Orderana
@orderana
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I thought it over carefully and came to the conclusion that I have absolutely no friends, I have coworkers, I have acquaintances, but no friends. How did I figure that out? If I stop the first to start a dialog, or to invite somewhere, from bowling to fishing, it's like they forget about me. And if I meet acquaintances on the street, it is always the same phrase “where have you disappeared, we haven't seen each other for a long time, we should get together and sit” and then they disappear, and if you don't remind about yourself, no one will even remember. And I became even more convinced of this, because for the last 3 weeks I have received only a couple of calls and letters from my boss on a work-related issue.
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@orderana When I was a student, I met my wife.
The money was tight, so we met at her apartment, which she rented with two other girlfriends. One day I stayed out late, she persuaded me to stay the night, and I didn't mind. It came to sex, I said that it was uncomfortable, the girls were coming over. She says: “They're used to it, they'll sit in the kitchen”. I look at her perplexed, she closed her eyes in horror, realizing what she had said. Then laughed and said it was about her friend often bringing her boyfriend to her place. I didn't believe it much, but decided not to ruin the evening.
Got married a year later.
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@orderana When I was still young, my parents had already instilled in me that no one needed me, that I had to achieve everything on my own, that I should not open my mouth in their house.
As a result, I got married, moved to another city, and my husband and I live near the sea. We rely only on ourselves.
And what do you think? From April to November we have a pilgrimage of relatives of varying degrees of distance. And all set the table, make the bed and talk, more city to show and take on his car. That is, where is this promised “that no one needs me, that everything should be organized by myself”....
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