I’ve come to the belief that all negativity comes from insecurity. Almost all the “bullying” type behavior I witnessed as a parent seemed so obviously that it came from the bully’s own insecurity. Then I started to ask myself why would it be different as adults? Once I started seeing it this way, it just becomes hard to find any logical reason to dunk on anyone, about anything. And now when I see someone dunk on someone else, I just feel sorry for them and want to give them a hug and tell they are enough lol