Life is choreography.
Don't ask for anything, don't expect anything, and take everything calmly. I think like this: "What people say or think about me is none of my business. I am who I am, and I do what I do just for fun - that's how this game works. The wonderful game of life on its own field. There is nothing to win and nothing to lose, there is nothing to prove. No need to turn inside out - for what? Because I am essentially nobody and have always been nobody." It came to me about ten years ago during a deep depression, when I was sitting in a Roman hotel. I repeated it to myself like a spell. And since then, many amazing things have happened in my life.