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Thoughts on getting married at 22? I have a friend who’s getting married this year and it SCARED me. Is it a good idea to get married that early?

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Adriana Lica pfp

Interesting to see how sticky this topic is with the community. Love and marriage is an equation we all would like to crack 💘

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CS pfp

Flip a coin and call it in the air. You’ll know how you want it to land before it touches the ground

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Geo Ppls pfp

Did some calculations as a preteen and decided 26 was the perfect age to get married. Take it from me in 27 lol

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Renjith Nair pfp

Well , Do something really tough together like a long hike or a significant remodel project , by the end of it you will know .

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My husband was 22, I was 24 when we got married. I think it largely depends on maturity levels and whether both are aligned on things that are important to have/not have: when/if to have children and how they're going to be raised, views on mono/polyfidelity, but even the simple stuff – diet, habits, interests

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Took awhile longer for me. I worked some crazy hours through nearly all of my 20s. (Got married at age 27, we dated for 15 months before going for it.)

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personally too early for me, although i’ve effectively been married since 24 with my fiancée / wife as of tmw 😂 i took 7y to tie the knot my first friend to marry was 26 and now we’re 31 and he has two kids. i explored SF and NYC in that time and he started his fam. we are both happy

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Ed O'Shaughnessy

The alimony would be less!

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Karthik Senthil

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There are pros and cons. My 2cs is that it can often be tricky to know yourself well enough to then find a spouse that complements you by 22. That being said, ppl have done it and come out better for it than folks who have waited

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today I met a 50 year old lady who got married at 20 and is celebrating her 30 year anniversary and is as happy as it gets

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marriage is a personal, cultural, economic, and health-motivated decision. it's very hard to cast judgment, even when knowing both partners in the marriage well. i think the more interesting questions is - what scared you about two people at age 22 getting married?

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How long have they known each other? Are they emotionally mature? Do they have a healthy relationship?

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I don’t about marriage at 22… But I do know it’s exquisitely difficult, if not impossible, to know what’s going on in someone else’s relationship. I’d say support the friend, whatever happens.

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For me this is too young but it’s really based on the individual.

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If you love him/her just do it.

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I think in certain contexts it makes sense. I know friends who've been in relationships since high-school for 4+ years, so marriage was inevitable, so better to do it sooner than later. In general though: https://i.imgur.com/Vq3a4Fh.png

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Learn to follow the heart, age is no matter.

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I got married at 22. It definitely helped me mature quickly and it's been great to have that constant throughout my adult life. I think in general the younger you are the longer you should probably know each other before getting married.

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I think it depends on the people. I don’t think anything is necessarily good or bad. It just kinda is.

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