dating

Went out with a pretty, smart, popular girl I had amazing chemistry with but the spark was quickly gone as she’s too “wifey material”.

Gun to my head having to marry someone in 30 days else WW3 blows up I’d pick her 100%.

But as someone not looking to settle, wifey material = predictable, safe, thus boring. 

She’s just way too nice. And for relationships to work there must be volatilities.

So let’s say if you are a:

• wholesome
• presentable
• late 20s/early 30s male 
• making mid 6 figs TC+ 

It’s easy falling into this trap of believing since you tick all items on a checklist, you are good enough, and refuses to take risks in approaching women.

Fundamentally, attraction always requires a bit of mystery, intrique, and randomness for interest to build.

Being too dependable, straightforward, or even agreeable, and there is no magic.

You might be a solid husband material to woman, but you’d be too nice and thus boring.

But hey, no one ever said it was simple.