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Life textbooks are never as simple as school textbooks, and the way they teach people to grow is often harsh.
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Once people are standardized and modeled, it will cause a person's dilemma and the fault tolerance rate will become very low.
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Regularly engaging with things one fears, understanding, adapting to, and getting used to them through practice, will gradually eliminate one's fear of them.
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Allowing things not to follow my causal laws is the key to not living in constant loss of control due to excessive control, and only then can one experience inner peace and acceptance.
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Life requires breakthroughs, don't let your way of thinking and lifestyle limit yourself. Having a curious mood will lead you to discover more interesting things.
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Stay optimistic, one day your chances of success will greatly increase. The more optimistic you are, the more willing you are to try - and the more you try, the more likely you are to truly succeed.
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The human heart can only hold a certain degree of despair. If the sponge is already saturated, even if the ocean flows over it, it cannot add a drop of water to it.
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Don't often suppress your anger, either digest it or express it in some way.
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The key step towards accepting mediocrity is not to give up on effort, but to give up on one's own fantasies and return to reality.
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Difficulty is that if you are strong, it becomes weak, and if you are weak, it becomes strong. When a person has strong beliefs, everything else appears insignificant.
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Those who nitpick others in every way are actually dissatisfied with themselves.
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Our lives are like a wide river, actively connecting high-quality information flow, interpersonal flow, and environmental flow, which is equivalent to creating an entropy reducing environment for photosynthesis, water cycle, and atmospheric flow for ourselves.
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There is an empathy effect in psychology: cleverly repeating the other person's values can unconsciously give them a sense of identification.
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Because someone who doesn't like you will find various reasons to dislike you; And someone who likes you will also find various reasons to like you.
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New habits arise by associating suggestion, habitual behavior, and reward, and cultivating a desire to drive this loop.
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The best relationship is never about binding and constraining, but about watching over each other and being independent of each other.
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If we lower our expectations for a normal life and acknowledge the unpredictability of fate, we will reduce our disappointment with life.
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How we spend each day, of course, will also be how we spend this life.
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We should not cling to a glass heart and crave for others' love, but focus our energy on ourselves and make ourselves stronger.
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People are not afraid of pain, but of meaningless pain.
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