Katodili
@katodili
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Got married at 22. Wife was 27 years old at the time. She quickly had a baby and went on maternity leave. Now after 10 years, she is such an aunt who goes to her job in the accounting department, dresses accordingly, the second child did not want, she is not interested in sports, books and some self-development too. Honestly says to me that always wanted only a stamp and a child, no longer sees the point of stress, the plan for life is fulfilled. I look at girls 25-30 years old not because they are beauties, but because they are keen lively girls who are interested in everything, who have dreams and ambitions. The only thing keeping me going so far is my son, but for how long.....
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I'm 29, been in 4 serious relationships, lived with, had two kids with. They were all abusers. Some kind of prohibition was constantly on a bright image, on cosmetic procedures, don't wear heels, why in a tanning salon/for whom, it is necessary to be more modest in a relationship anyway, etc. Okay, I'm sick of it. I am now single, living with my kids. I have two men who provide. They don't know about each other and don't ask about each other, I spend their money on myself, my own money I earn on my kids, household....
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I don't recognize my child. My daughter has always been quiet, calm, whatever you say, she does, never refused anyone, helped. For the last 4 years she has changed, as something you ask or relatives ask, she says no. She can send you a swear word, yell when you argue with her. I did not allow her to raise her voice at me, only she started to show herself, I yelled at her with a swear, suppressed and she calmed down, she knew who was in charge. And now it feels like she believes in herself, she's not afraid of anything!
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My wife and I had overcome a lot of adversity - failed pregnancies, health problems, periods of unemployment, peer pressure, parenting issues, misunderstandings, and the remnants of other failed relationships. I felt like we had won. We have a cozy apartment, we are healthy, ready for kids, we travel, we have a promising job. And then her “first love” shows up. Selfish, narcissistic, controlling. I was aware that they occasionally socialized, but I trusted her and knew she wouldn't allow betrayal. Where were my eyes. It turned out they had picked out her things together, gone for walks, kissed in the backseat and, as an apotheosis - five minutes to no sex in our apartment. She found the strength to chase him away. And I'm afraid I won't be able to trust her anymore. My world is shattered.
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