Sense

Someone asked me, “how will you know if the person is good for you?”

There are many signs, I think. But I strongly believe that someone is good for you if they bring out the softness in you. The version of you who likes bright colors, cute stuff, and calm music. The one who sends cute reels, saves animal photos, and watches animated movies. The one who sings in the kitchen, dances in the rain, and giggles even after a long tiring day. The version of you that says gentle words, speaks in a soft voice, and feels as safe as a sweet child  under the star-painted ceiling when around them. The one that doesn’t do people-pleasing, says what the heart says, and feels comfortable just being true.

I think the main sign that a person is good for you is when they make you realize you can outgrow the version of you who’s always in defense mode. When they make you realize that you also want to be loved. When they make you realize that you, too, are capable of loving.