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Jorge Pablo Franetovic 🎩
@jpfraneto.eth
for soon-to-be fathers (especially first timers): 1. it is impossible to not make mistakes. you are not perfect. your kid will have traumas. and that is perfectly fine. instead of avoiding them having traumas (which you can’t control), focus on healing -becoming consciously aware of- yours (which you can control). 2. the important part of the equation is the mother. focus your energy on providing what she needs to tap into the -mostly forgotten- innate and natural motherhood wisdom that is inherent in being woman. at the core of her being, she knows what to do. there is an intuition that is hidden behind layers of insecurities and fear. your mission is to help her feel safe, so that she can tap into that 3. reach out with vulnerability, expressing your own insecurities (especially to other men). the meme of “men don’t cry” is the most stupid invention of humanity 4. remember how to play, and practice that daily 5. buy stretch marks cream and rub her belly every night with tenderness what else?
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Giancarlo🎩
@giancarlodc.eth
8. Don’t worry about calculating if it’s financially doable to have a kid or waiting for the “perfect moment”. There is no such thing. When you two feel it is time, just go for it. You will see that your brain, as soon as you hold your baby in your arms, will reprogram itself to change your priorities in life and because of that, create every single condition you need to make this parenthood happen to its best.
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