@gelicyno I bought an apartment with my own money when I was 29. No one helped me and no one helped me. I got a lot of diseases from nervousness. Constantly worried first for the deal, then for repairs, then for monthly payments, early closed. Breathed my ass off.
Then I met my future husband. Very quickly everything was wrapped up, he proposed marriage and now there is a question of housing. My apartment is 45 square meters, too small to have children in it. My husband has no property.
Now we want to take an apartment and I am in a panic. My husband doesn't insist on selling mine, respects my choice to keep the premarital. And I am scared of the mortgage, triggers that it is again work to wear and tear and nervousness. I know in my mind that it's my husband's job, but I still panic.
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