No one can desire what is ultimately harmful to them. If, however, a different impression develops from an individual — and it probably always does — then this is explained by the fact that someone in a person wants something that is, however, beneficial to this someone, but to someone else, who is involved only for evaluation in this case, it is very harmful. If a person had sided with this second person from the very beginning, and not only during evaluation, then the first "someone" would have died out, and with it the desire.